What i’ve learned from “Why Men Love Bitches.”

Just to clarify as if it isn’t already obvious enough- This article is mostly for the ladies.

..and any curious fellas.

What is “Why Men Love Bitches?” If you have not heard of it, well here’s what you need to know; “Why Men Love Bitches” is a relationship self-help book. The book recently came into my grasp because a friend of a friend said it “changed her life,” and that she now has men eating out of the palm of her hand.

Naturally, I bought the book.

But this article isn’t a review, it’s a helpful relationship how-to for the girls of the world who a) read my blog and b) want to the key to better relationships with men. That key my friends, is self-respect.

Let’s face it, young men have boundless options. From the typical desperate girl, to the girl who acts as if she loves sex as much as any man, the competition is everywhere. With all this competition it’s sometimes hard to try and set oneself apart in an obvious manner besides looking gorgeous and acting cool. But besides those obvious things, one thing to focus on to set yourself apart is your demeanor. If you act like you know you are a catch, and don’t jump at an opportunity to talk to a guy, then you are already ahead- because plenty of girls are just way too eager- I myself have been guilty of this too, unfortunately. The book explains that it is not the most beautiful or exceptional girls who get all the guys. It is the girls who are truly confident in who they are that get all the men. If a woman is not afraid to lose a man, a man is appalled, and his interest is peaked. The reason for this is because men are hunters. There is no arguing with the fact that men thrive on competition and things become more valuable when they have to work for them. The same goes for the women they choose! You could be the most beautiful, sexy, and intelligent dame in your town, but if you show him your affections too easily, then what has he really won? A man has to feel as if he has earned it to make it worth it.

It all makes sense, doesn’t it?

So, in conclusion, if you want to have an edge when attracting all the fine men around,  then you have to believe that you are the best. You can show him that by being a prize to be won, and expecting to be treated with respect. Or, if that’s still not enough, go pick up a copy of “Why Men Love Bitches.” It will change your life. ;)

And remember…None of this:

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I wish you all of you the greatest self-respect and love.

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